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Lottery winner goes from rags to riches to rags
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Hamilton, OH United States Member #4236 March 27, 2004 156 Posts Offline
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| Posted: August 22, 2007, 3:03 pm - IP Logged |
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We all benefit from the lessons of the unwise few. You just don't need everything you see. That is a slave mentality. These people were obviously slaves to their appetites. I truly feel for them in a way. If you starve for a long period, you develop a food hording tendency. The same goes for cash and a fear of poverty. People like these need to take payments. It is unfortunate that some people live in the moment with no thought of tomorrow. Drug addicts commit slow suicide due to self hatred, maybe this is the case here.
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Right here...can't you see me? United States Member #21854 September 10, 2005 112 Posts Offline
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| Posted: August 22, 2007, 3:26 pm - IP Logged |
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There are plenty of stories where people have blown their newly found money. I agree with Jeffery with what he said about people who starve for a long period, they tend to horde food. I was just thinking the same thing. I don't have a lot of money but I know that winning will just be over whelming! (IN A GOOD WAY...but there will be pressure) That's why I already planned my first couple of weeks. I'm going to be taking DEEP BREATHES. Really deep, calming breaths. When the money is finally given to me....while I'm taking deep breathes, me and my hubby get a couple thousand to go insane with. He can buy whatever his heart desires and so can I. Just get BUCK WILD! This is after my tithes are paid, of course. We get ONLY a couple of thousand. There HAS to be a limit. Once it's gone...it's gone...no touching what's left. Once it's spent on stupid useless crap....we've now gotten that out of our system...we can now be more level headed and more prepared to make better decisions. 
Don't cry over spilled milk. Go milk another cow!!
Stephanie
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mid-Ohio United States Member #9 March 24, 2001 9245 Posts Offline
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| Posted: August 22, 2007, 3:31 pm - IP Logged |
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Sounds like he ended up where he was headed before he won the lottery. Winning the lottery caused a slight detour. * Trying is the first step toward failure *
homer J. Simpson
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MI United States Member #20554 August 14, 2005 49 Posts Offline
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| Posted: August 22, 2007, 4:21 pm - IP Logged |
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When this guy was on 60 Minutes in 2004 or 5, he was one of 4 winners that looked like they would be successful with their winning. To my knowledge the others are still doing well. The thing I remember most was when he talked of buying a suit of armor, "So what if it cost $50,000, I make that much a month in interest". Also, if my memory is correct, his wife was never mentioned. It's a sad story and one I hope to learn from when I hit the Mega Millions on Friday.
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Just outside of Cleveland, OH United States Member #54547 August 3, 2007 77 Posts Offline
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| Posted: August 22, 2007, 4:37 pm - IP Logged |
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Sounds like he ended up where he was headed before he won the lottery. Winning the lottery caused a slight detour. LOL Or merely caused it to happen more rapidly. Sudden changes (for good OR bad) basically intensify behavior characteristics that are already there. A recent article on handling sudden wealth on MSN Money pages pointed out that the first thing to those who find themselves in these circumstances is do to take a breather, then see a planner and put a plan in place that you can live with, then tie the rest of your money up so that even if you WANT to respond to those who will "put the touch on you", you cannot. I know that I can say NO as well as the next person but there are some types of sob stories that REALLY get to me--so I need protection against those who know this about me (as an ex-nurse, I run a Blood Pressure Clinic for my church and Health Screening Program in my community--both free--and have provided an ear and Kleenex to many in dire straits). To those who say to just say no to freeloaders--last time I did that--the next morning I came out to find that the car we park outside had been egged--could be just a coincidence, though, since I have a lot of teenagers in my neighborhood. Money provides freedom, lots of money provides lots of freedom--if you don't trust a planner, then tie up your money in receiving the annuitized pmts, so your exposure to loss is limited--too bad David and Shawna thought they could handle the lump sum--this is a once in a lifetime event--there's no more where that came from.
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Hamilton, OH United States Member #4236 March 27, 2004 156 Posts Offline
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| Posted: August 22, 2007, 4:55 pm - IP Logged |
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Sounds like he ended up where he was headed before he won the lottery. Winning the lottery caused a slight detour. Unfortunately, I agree. People like that usually have a bad end. RJOh, congrats on your past win in the Ohio Lottery.
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Qabloc!zewana Neutral Zone Member #14894 April 29, 2005 17 Posts Offline
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| Posted: August 22, 2007, 6:35 pm - IP Logged |
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Great post. I had watched his 'little' story on the Discovery Channel(?) about new lottery millionaires and wondered if this fellow would stay clean. Apparently not. I also wonder is people like this fellow know what a 'budget' is. Is that even in their vocabulary??
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Illinois United States Member #30849 January 17, 2006 3491 Posts Offline
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| Posted: August 22, 2007, 6:41 pm - IP Logged |
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I'm still thinking about the $200,000 and the trip to Vegas. OK, he wins the Powerball, the OP said his share was $27,000,000. So in that respect at the time the $200,000 loan is chump change. He's going to retire the loan as soon as he gets his lottery check and not keep paying interest. But as the story goes on he gets sued by the homeowners association for several thousand. So at first that $200,000 was peanuts but how bad do you think he's like to have that $200,000 now? Just my $.02 here - there's something else very, very disturbing about this story- and that is many, many people here have posted in threads about, "What would you do if you won....." and described a very similar course of action that this guy took. "I'd go to Vegas" "I'd buy a really hot Italian sports car or two" "I'd buy a yacht" etc...etc.... If there was ever a solid case for proving the need for reamining anonymous and for choosing to remain anonymousy, this is it. It's Lotto, not horseshoes or artillery! close doesn't count! I sell everything at a loss but make up for it in volume - Milo Minderbinder, Catch-22
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Urbandale, IA United States Member #8788 November 11, 2004 81 Posts Offline
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| Posted: August 22, 2007, 6:54 pm - IP Logged |
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Remaining anonymous is a great idea, but probably not realistic - even if the state's law allows it. You could do it if you want to continue with your current lifestyle (and working) and watch the interest grow unspent. Some folks might enjoy that, but not many. If you have a tough time saying "no", a better option is to appoint a person to handle all money requests. That way, you don't ever have to say 'no'. Just say that "All financial requests are being handled by Mr. X" and hand over a card. Then, when they try to continue with their sad story, say, "Really, Mr. X is handling all of those requests, it would not be fair to handle your's differently." Then when Mr. X denies the request say, "Well, those decisions are really made by Mr. X on the merit of each case and how it compares to other request; perhaps you can approach Mr. X later, when the nature of other requests changes."
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Sunny SW Florida United States Member #25708 November 5, 2005 4070 Posts Offline
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| Posted: August 22, 2007, 7:07 pm - IP Logged |
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In memory of Cash Only... If I win the $40 million Florida Lotto jackpot tonight, I'll probably take the annuity. I used to think it was better to take the money & run, and still wonder about it. However, knowing every year that, no matter how badly you screw up your life, you'll still be getting a big check soon must be a very comforting feeling.
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