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You know these kind of stories are always scary to me.  I mean, ANYONE could say "we had an agreement to split the winnings and I gave so and so xxx amount of dollars".....co-workers, so called friends, family, etc.  I mean how does the Lottery Commission handle these types of claims if there is nothing in writing?  I always play my own lottery and have never been a part of any pool or anything like that but let's say I happened to win a large amount of money.....who's to say someone couldn't come forward and say "we were suppose to split the winnings?"  How would the Lottery Commission handle this type of claim?

I saved a copy of an article I had read a few years ago on what to do should you win a large amount of money playing the lottery.  I think it sounds like pretty good advice, here's what it says.....

Lottery Winners

Strangely enough, winning millions in the lottery can be the worst thing that ever happened to you.  The money can strain relationships with your spouse and relatives.  It can turn your friends and neighbors into leeches.  It can ruin your privacy.  It can cause security problems, threaten your physical safety.  Paradoxically, it can lead you down the road to bankruptcy.

And, of course, it can also turn you into a raging jerk.

Tips for the Latest Instant Millionaire

It's great to be rich, but fame comes with a price.  So your primary mission is to claim the money without divulging your identity or having a mental breakdown.  Here's how to do it:

1.  Don't tell anyone.  The single most important rule for maintaining sanity after winning the lotter is:  Do everything you can to keep your precious anonymity intact.  Of course that means keeping your mouth shut.  Don't share the news with your friends, neighbors, co-workers, or family.  Resist even the urge to tell your spouse or significant other, at least for the time being.  Otherwise you will have forever blown your one chance at being anonymous.  You can always spill the beans later, after all the excitement has died down.

2.  Don't sign the ticket.  After you write your name on that ticket, you might as well call up and announce the news to your local TV stations and newspapers.  Remember that the state lottery commission will publicize the identity of every claimant.  Toss the ticket into a clean Ziploc bag (to avoid spills, etc.) and temporarily stash it someplace away from excessive heat, sunlight, pets, children, roommates, co-workers, etc.  Make sure it's someplace safe that you won't forget.

3.  Act casual.  Maintain your normal routine.  Continue to attend work, school, church, social functions, etc.  Whatever's typical for you.  When people ask you what's up, refer to rule number one.

4.  Make a few photocopies.  At your earliest opportunity, take a trip to a 24-hour Kinko's around 2am when nobody's around and make six copies of the ticket, both front and back.  Use one of the self-serve machines and take any and all bad copies with you (i.e. leave none in the trash).  And before you leave, doublecheck to make sure you didn't leave the original in the machine.

5.  Rent a safe-deposit box.  Contact your bank and see if they have any vacant safe deposit boxes, tell them you're going on a trip and need to store some documents for a few months.  Make a point of asking them how much it costs, even though you could care less.  You're trying to keep up appearances.  When you go down to the bank in person to open your box, you will probably need some ID and your bank card.  Bring the ticket, along with some other "fake" papers.  Don't show them the ticket, obviously.  Loose lips sink ships.  Stash the ticket in the box and put the box key on your keyring.  Don't lose the key.

6.  Open a blind trust.  Hire a tax attorney.  Once you're a client, the lawyer is legally bound to maintain your confidentiality.  Tell them you want to open a blind trust in order to claim the lottery prize as an anonymous trustee.  Provide three photocopies of your ticket.  All contact with the lottery commission will be made through your lawyer.

7.  Contact a financial planner.  Rich people don't tend to stay that way without a little planning.  If you have the choice between annual payments and a single large payout, you should consider the big jackpot.  It's less money total, but it's probably about the same as the annuity if you take the lump sum and invest it in interest-bearing savings bonds.  However, the single large payout may incur a higher tax rate.  Ask your tax experts.

8.  Tie up any financial loose ends.  No reason to procrastinate now.  Pay all those traffic fines and parking tickets.  Catch up on alimony or child support payments.  Settle any debts.  Instruct your financial planner to scrub those black marks off your credit score, but don't cancel your credit cards -- that'll screw up your rating.  And don't think it won't matter anymore.  It matters.

9.  Draft or update your last will and testament.  If there were ever a time for estate planning, it's now.

10.  Move away.  And not just out of town.  We're talking out of state, possibly out of the country.  You can't expect to keep a lid on your secret forever; information wants to be free.  Maybe buy a modest house with a good alarm system in a gated community with a private security force.  That ought to minimize the solicitors at your door.  Also be sure to get an unlisted phone number.

Now you can finally enjoy all that wealth in peace.  Go ahead and spluge.  Get yourself a P.O. Box.  Anyway, that's what all the hip millionaires do.  Seriously.

***I thought this all sounded like very good advice!

I can't say I agree with not signing the ticket.  What if someone else finds it?? there's no way in H E double hockey sticks I would put it even in a safe deposit box without my John Han<snip> on it.

Money is the root of all evil.  Play by yourself.  If you win then only your nagging family you have to deal with.

I saved a copy of an article I had read a few years ago on what to do should you win a large amount of money playing the lottery.  I think it sounds like pretty good advice, here's what it says.....

Lottery Winners

Strangely enough, winning millions in the lottery can be the worst thing that ever happened to you.  The money can strain relationships with your spouse and relatives.  It can turn your friends and neighbors into leeches.  It can ruin your privacy.  It can cause security problems, threaten your physical safety.  Paradoxically, it can lead you down the road to bankruptcy.

And, of course, it can also turn you into a raging jerk.

Tips for the Latest Instant Millionaire

It's great to be rich, but fame comes with a price.  So your primary mission is to claim the money without divulging your identity or having a mental breakdown.  Here's how to do it:

1.  Don't tell anyone.  The single most important rule for maintaining sanity after winning the lotter is:  Do everything you can to keep your precious anonymity intact.  Of course that means keeping your mouth shut.  Don't share the news with your friends, neighbors, co-workers, or family.  Resist even the urge to tell your spouse or significant other, at least for the time being.  Otherwise you will have forever blown your one chance at being anonymous.  You can always spill the beans later, after all the excitement has died down.

2.  Don't sign the ticket.  After you write your name on that ticket, you might as well call up and announce the news to your local TV stations and newspapers.  Remember that the state lottery commission will publicize the identity of every claimant.  Toss the ticket into a clean Ziploc bag (to avoid spills, etc.) and temporarily stash it someplace away from excessive heat, sunlight, pets, children, roommates, co-workers, etc.  Make sure it's someplace safe that you won't forget.

3.  Act casual.  Maintain your normal routine.  Continue to attend work, school, church, social functions, etc.  Whatever's typical for you.  When people ask you what's up, refer to rule number one.

4.  Make a few photocopies.  At your earliest opportunity, take a trip to a 24-hour Kinko's around 2am when nobody's around and make six copies of the ticket, both front and back.  Use one of the self-serve machines and take any and all bad copies with you (i.e. leave none in the trash).  And before you leave, doublecheck to make sure you didn't leave the original in the machine.

5.  Rent a safe-deposit box.  Contact your bank and see if they have any vacant safe deposit boxes, tell them you're going on a trip and need to store some documents for a few months.  Make a point of asking them how much it costs, even though you could care less.  You're trying to keep up appearances.  When you go down to the bank in person to open your box, you will probably need some ID and your bank card.  Bring the ticket, along with some other "fake" papers.  Don't show them the ticket, obviously.  Loose lips sink ships.  Stash the ticket in the box and put the box key on your keyring.  Don't lose the key.

6.  Open a blind trust.  Hire a tax attorney.  Once you're a client, the lawyer is legally bound to maintain your confidentiality.  Tell them you want to open a blind trust in order to claim the lottery prize as an anonymous trustee.  Provide three photocopies of your ticket.  All contact with the lottery commission will be made through your lawyer.

7.  Contact a financial planner.  Rich people don't tend to stay that way without a little planning.  If you have the choice between annual payments and a single large payout, you should consider the big jackpot.  It's less money total, but it's probably about the same as the annuity if you take the lump sum and invest it in interest-bearing savings bonds.  However, the single large payout may incur a higher tax rate.  Ask your tax experts.

8.  Tie up any financial loose ends.  No reason to procrastinate now.  Pay all those traffic fines and parking tickets.  Catch up on alimony or child support payments.  Settle any debts.  Instruct your financial planner to scrub those black marks off your credit score, but don't cancel your credit cards -- that'll screw up your rating.  And don't think it won't matter anymore.  It matters.

9.  Draft or update your last will and testament.  If there were ever a time for estate planning, it's now.

10.  Move away.  And not just out of town.  We're talking out of state, possibly out of the country.  You can't expect to keep a lid on your secret forever; information wants to be free.  Maybe buy a modest house with a good alarm system in a gated community with a private security force.  That ought to minimize the solicitors at your door.  Also be sure to get an unlisted phone number.

Now you can finally enjoy all that wealth in peace.  Go ahead and spluge.  Get yourself a P.O. Box.  Anyway, that's what all the hip millionaires do.  Seriously.

***I thought this all sounded like very good advice!

Something I would certainly look into and have thought of, though I don't know if I would want to deal with a Home Owners Association or restrictions that a gated community would likely have. It all depends on the jackpot amount though as to which way I would go. The most important thing though is to just not make a spectacle of yourself and excessively show off your riches. Yeah, I say riches because there's a difference between being rich and being wealthy. Personally I'd use the money to become wealthy instead of just rich.

Something I would certainly look into and have thought of, though I don't know if I would want to deal with a Home Owners Association or restrictions that a gated community would likely have. It all depends on the jackpot amount though as to which way I would go. The most important thing though is to just not make a spectacle of yourself and excessively show off your riches. Yeah, I say riches because there's a difference between being rich and being wealthy. Personally I'd use the money to become wealthy instead of just rich.

Correct me if i'm wrong but wasn't moving into a high end gated comunity combined with various other issues of instant wealth ... how one florida couple went nearly broke ??

don't recall the name but I do believe I saw it on of them :" curse of the lottery" programs

I know for myself the thought of living ingated community not to mention related dues and such bylaws seem like tooo much trouble