All times shown are Eastern Time (GMT-5:00) | Home -> Forums -> Lottery Discussion -> Marriage/Alimony and how it affects lottery winners Marriage/Alimony and how it affects lottery winnersPrevious TopicNext TopicEspanola NM United States Member #73231 March 25, 2009 133 Posts Offline | | Posted: March 25, 2009, 10:20 pm - IP Logged | |
Right now I am a SINGLE 25 yr old male. I have no children. My question is shall I win the jackpot of a major lottery.......is that considered "joint" property if I would get married down the road in my lifetime. Or is alimony, etc based only from the time of marriage until divorce. I heard of prenuptial agreements. very useful apparently.....but aren't those meant for RICH successful individuals who have high steady income annually. With a jackpot....and a lump sum......that is not an annual income flow. Just curious. Also about children. Since I would be rich. Should I have a Vasectomy. To avoid the painful issue of a potential gold digger wife who may want high-end child support payments. | | |
United States Member #61714 May 16, 2008 124 Posts Offline | | Posted: March 25, 2009, 10:50 pm - IP Logged | |
Marriage shouldn't even be considered if you don't trust them. | | |
Espanola NM United States Member #73231 March 25, 2009 133 Posts Offline | | Posted: March 25, 2009, 10:55 pm - IP Logged | |
It isn't necessarily all about trust. Half of all the marriages in the US ends up in divorce. Most marriages have initial good intentions and good trust. It is just that circumstances may cause the marriage to dissolve. It has nothing to do with money most of the time. Anyways I think I answered my own question. I live in a community property state-->New mexico. Thus property acquired PRIOR to a marriage is considered seperate and sole custody of the owner. "Joint" or 50/50 only exists during the tenure of the marriage. | | |
mid-Ohio United States Member #9 March 24, 2001 13462 Posts Offline | | Posted: March 25, 2009, 11:11 pm - IP Logged | |
It isn't necessarily all about trust. Half of all the marriages in the US ends up in divorce. Most marriages have initial good intentions and good trust. It is just that circumstances may cause the marriage to dissolve. It has nothing to do with money most of the time. Anyways I think I answered my own question. I live in a community property state-->New mexico. Thus property acquired PRIOR to a marriage is considered seperate and sole custody of the owner. "Joint" or 50/50 only exists during the tenure of the marriage. That's something you might want to consider if you have thoughts of finding a rich woman to marry. * THat which happens most * * is most likely to happen again * 
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United States Member #61714 May 16, 2008 124 Posts Offline | | Posted: March 25, 2009, 11:45 pm - IP Logged | |
It isn't necessarily all about trust. Half of all the marriages in the US ends up in divorce. Most marriages have initial good intentions and good trust. It is just that circumstances may cause the marriage to dissolve. It has nothing to do with money most of the time. Anyways I think I answered my own question. I live in a community property state-->New mexico. Thus property acquired PRIOR to a marriage is considered seperate and sole custody of the owner. "Joint" or 50/50 only exists during the tenure of the marriage. I agree with you on all points. But, asking them to sign a pre-nup is basically telling them that you don't have that initial trust. It's not a good way to start off a marriage if you ask me. The solution is to not get married. Anyways... this isn't a marriage board. We should probably get back on topic. | | |
United States Member #13375 March 30, 2005 1933 Posts Offline | | Posted: March 26, 2009, 1:28 am - IP Logged | |
Right now I am a SINGLE 25 yr old male. I have no children. My question is shall I win the jackpot of a major lottery.......is that considered "joint" property if I would get married down the road in my lifetime. Or is alimony, etc based only from the time of marriage until divorce. I heard of prenuptial agreements. very useful apparently.....but aren't those meant for RICH successful individuals who have high steady income annually. With a jackpot....and a lump sum......that is not an annual income flow. Just curious. Also about children. Since I would be rich. Should I have a Vasectomy. To avoid the painful issue of a potential gold digger wife who may want high-end child support payments. A marriage is a 3-way contract between you, the spouse, and the state you live in and or get divorced in. The state you live in will determine the rules of prenupts, community property, divorce, alimony, child support, etc. Your options living in NM will differ than your options living in TX, therefore the answer is "it depends where you live." As an aside, your future ex-wife could spend 3 days in Nevada and file for and be granted a divorce from you there. In neo-conned Amerika, bank robs you. Alcohol, Tobacco, and Firearms should be the name of a convenience store, not a govnoment agency. | | |
Espanola NM United States Member #73231 March 25, 2009 133 Posts Offline | | Posted: March 26, 2009, 2:00 am - IP Logged | |
Cool info. Logistics with winning the lottery comes issues and problems one needs to be prepared for and planned out. The lottery after is a potential asset that can be deemed necessary to litigation disputes involving the winner's creditors. | | |
United States Member #54859 August 17, 2007 313 Posts Offline | | Posted: March 26, 2009, 4:03 am - IP Logged | |
Cool info. Logistics with winning the lottery comes issues and problems one needs to be prepared for and planned out. The lottery after is a potential asset that can be deemed necessary to litigation disputes involving the winner's creditors. If I win the lottery, i would never get married. I would get a permanant girlfriend. One of my customers is a rich Orthodentist and he's been dating this nice woman for 30 years. Never got married. | | |
williamsburg,ohio United States Member #71534 February 17, 2009 603 Posts Offline | | Posted: March 26, 2009, 4:52 am - IP Logged | |
hope they don't live together cause most states that is a marriage after so long | | |
United States Member #59008 February 18, 2008 710 Posts Offline
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If I win the lottery, i would never get married. I would get a permanant girlfriend. One of my customers is a rich Orthodentist and he's been dating this nice woman for 30 years. Never got married. Lee Marvin,the late actor tried that a couple of decades ago.His ex-girlfriend sued him for "palamony" and cleaned him out.Of course that was in California where they tend to see things a little differently. | | |
Chief Bottle Washer New Jersey United States Member #1 May 31, 2000 19729 Posts Offline | | Posted: March 26, 2009, 9:43 am - IP Logged | |
Right now I am a SINGLE 25 yr old male. I have no children. My question is shall I win the jackpot of a major lottery.......is that considered "joint" property if I would get married down the road in my lifetime. Or is alimony, etc based only from the time of marriage until divorce. I heard of prenuptial agreements. very useful apparently.....but aren't those meant for RICH successful individuals who have high steady income annually. With a jackpot....and a lump sum......that is not an annual income flow. Just curious. Also about children. Since I would be rich. Should I have a Vasectomy. To avoid the painful issue of a potential gold digger wife who may want high-end child support payments. A prenup would be a good idea for any lottery winner. As a big winner you should have a steady stream of income from all of your investments, so you need to protect it. On your last point, I think you're getting carried away. If you're thinking of children as property or bargaining chips in a divorce, you're not ready for children yet. | | |
charlotte, north carolina United States Member #65783 September 22, 2008 1622 Posts Offline | | Posted: March 26, 2009, 10:20 am - IP Logged | |
I agree with Todd, i could not of said it better. | | |
Magnolia, Delaware United States Member #19109 July 20, 2005 780 Posts Offline | | Posted: March 26, 2009, 12:44 pm - IP Logged | |
Right now I am a SINGLE 25 yr old male. I have no children. My question is shall I win the jackpot of a major lottery.......is that considered "joint" property if I would get married down the road in my lifetime. Or is alimony, etc based only from the time of marriage until divorce. I heard of prenuptial agreements. very useful apparently.....but aren't those meant for RICH successful individuals who have high steady income annually. With a jackpot....and a lump sum......that is not an annual income flow. Just curious. Also about children. Since I would be rich. Should I have a Vasectomy. To avoid the painful issue of a potential gold digger wife who may want high-end child support payments. The ONLY way to do it is to have already in place what's called a Legacy Trust! That will keep anyone and everyone away from the money and the money will go on for generations to come long after you are gone! Just think about all the future generations that will benefit from you and your thoughtfulness to start such a legacy for all of your future bloodline. All of the checks will go to them with your name on it! How do you think the Kennedy's the Rockefeller's and the others do it? How does their money go from generation to generation without worry about the divorcing and the like? Well you now have your answer! It's called Legacy Trust! Do yourself a favor and go out online and do some research on the matter of Legacy Trust and you'll see what I'm talking about. Heck if you like go as far as calling one or two of the attorneys that handle the legacy trust, what can it hurt huh. Keep dreaming the impossible dream, it just may come true! Please remember to support Your Lottery Post Community.  | | |
Pennsylvania United States Member #17377 June 10, 2005 2774 Posts Offline | | Posted: March 29, 2009, 3:24 pm - IP Logged | |
Valid lottery question to ask about protecting assets even upon marriage or heirs. Nothing wrong with seeking opinions here. I am 110% in favor of pre-nups and protecting that which belongs to the individual. Marriage is not solely about the benefits one gains but rather a long term commitment of the NON financial kind. As to heirs, one neednt be married to have offspring and they do seem to come out of the wood work when a person gains fame or fortune. ________________________________ Wanna Make God laugh? ..Tell him your plans. | | |
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