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Reply #31

bellyache — Thu, 01 Jun 2006 17:00:06 GMT

SassyOhio , I too am glad to hear that things are looking up for you. I wish you and the girls all the best.

Reply #30

wizeguy — Thu, 01 Jun 2006 16:03:30 GMT

Hi Sassy,

I'm glad to hear things are starting to come together for you. In Ohio, final expenses get paid first from an estate before other bills are paid. I don't know all the details but this probably includes many items and I don't know if there are any limitations.

wizeguy

Reply #29

SassyOhio — Thu, 01 Jun 2006 15:41:38 GMT

Quote: Originally posted by wizeguy on June 1, 2006 Hi Sassy,

I'm not very good at expressing myself in situations like this so please bear with me.

I found this thread rather late :-(. and see no recent replies, I hope and pray you are still receiving love, prayers, support, and advice privately from your friends here.

I offer my heartfelt condolences on yours and the girls tragic loss. I have lost more than I care to count in the last 3 years from a 17 yr old nephew, ready to start hi... [ More ]

Reply #28

wizeguy — Thu, 01 Jun 2006 14:48:12 GMT

Hi Sassy,

I'm not very good at expressing myself in situations like this so please bear with me.

I found this thread rather late :-(. and see no recent replies, I hope and pray you are still receiving love, prayers, support, and advice privately from your friends here.

I offer my heartfelt condolences on yours and the girls tragic loss. I have lost more than I care to count in the last 3 years from a 17 yr old nephew, ready to start his life as an adult, to a mother of 81, ready and wel... [ More ]

Reply #27

SassyOhio — Fri, 12 May 2006 04:15:43 GMT

I want to thank you all for all you precious words and heartfelt compassion. I would like to share with you my sisters website there are 5 pages in dedications to her that are there..having some problems with the next buttons so just go to the home buttons and enter each page of the home page for now and please feel free to sign her guestbook.

www.freewebs.com/wendyinmyheartforever

again thanks to all my friends and to our special angel ( you know who you are ;) ) All our thought... [ More ]

Reply #26

SassysBaibeee — Fri, 12 May 2006 03:59:59 GMT

Hey everybody... just wanted to give you an update on the family. The girls are doing pretty well... Taking it one day at a time. They have their moments, but of course that's warranted.

Sass is fairing the same for the most part. Please continue to keep us in your thoughts and prayers. We're still working on getting benefits together. If anyone knows of anyone who would like to donate, please share the paypal email wendymemorialfund@paypal.com Some people have been so generous, and we can't... [ More ]

Reply #25

Saleo Paleo — Mon, 08 May 2006 16:07:55 GMT

Have a wondereful day

Reply #24

BevsPicks — Mon, 08 May 2006 11:59:53 GMT

Reply #23

LOTTOMIKE — Mon, 08 May 2006 11:15:05 GMT

i hope you have a good day today sassy.take things one day at a time.

Reply #22

SassyOhio — Mon, 08 May 2006 01:35:27 GMT

Thank you all for your support the girls are having a better day today, was able to take them and get them a couple outfits and flip flops. I will keep you all posted on how they are doing!

All our love, Whitney, Megan, Jessi and Ri Ri, Karrie and John

Reply #21

emilyg — Sun, 07 May 2006 19:02:21 GMT

my condolences to you and your family.

james fl gave you some excellent long-term advice. not a quick cure. you'll have the children for a long time.

god bless.

Reply #20

DoubleDown — Sun, 07 May 2006 15:47:37 GMT

Sassy and Sassys Baibee,

Don't give the criticism any more thought.

These two are making a statement right now with their silence.

Reminds me of one of my favorite Shakespeare quotes -

A tale told by an idiot full of sound and fury, signifying nothing

Reply #19

DoubleDown — Sun, 07 May 2006 15:37:53 GMT

Back atcha Dude !!

Thanks....

DD

Reply #18

Saleo Paleo — Sun, 07 May 2006 15:34:22 GMT

Sounds to me like you are a creepe Euro247 and JamesFl,why don't you quit feeling sorry for yourself and get a life man,You knew what you were getting into when you took your job with the police and that was part of your job to protect the lady.

Reply #17

DrumSlinger — Sun, 07 May 2006 04:02:54 GMT

All the Best to your unselfish heart Sassy and God Bless,

1st: Sassy, read the private message I sent

2nd: Hey DoubleDown, I'll drink a glass of bug juice to you on what you said to James in Fl. At least for myself, keeping an 8 hour log, including incident reports you learn fast to keep them short and precise and word perfect. I agree with your analysis.

3rd: Euro, if it weren't for Americans with good hearts, you would most likely have a dam swastika on your sleeve now. Excuse m... [ More ]

Reply #16

SassysBaibeee — Sun, 07 May 2006 02:12:37 GMT

1st off... thank you to all of the lottery post members who have shown their support. As part of this family, it can't be put into words the appreciation we have for your kind words, and donations. It is good to know that there are still good people in this world, and people that know how understand tragedy, and how to respond to it.

As for Euro... If you think it's a scam, report it to somebody. AND PLEASE! Make sure you show them the obituary, I mean she probably made the funeral home webs... [ More ]

Reply #15

SassyOhio — Sun, 07 May 2006 01:19:28 GMT

And that just shows the world what a heartless bastard that you are and when you stand before god and are judged you will then know. I have held my neices all day from crying to anger to total exhaustion WHO ARE YOU JAMES to JUDGE there pain???? NOONE Your a perfect example of a Ignorant, selfish bastard.

as for Euro www.reedegan.com WENDYYYYYYYYYYYYYY HENDERSONNNNNNNNNNNNNN !!!!!! You know I came here as a memeber for support from friends NOT to be condemded MY SISTER IS DE... [ More ]

Reply #14

JamesFL — Sat, 06 May 2006 20:24:11 GMT

There are not heartless opinion's You don't want them posted because they are facts! I took a bullet in the back on the new york subway to save a women and her child when a man went on rampage shooting in 1986 I guess that's my decision but that young boy went on today to Rutgers and is becoming a Doctor and he actually came to Florida at age 18 to thank me in person. Sacrifices against ones personal belief's some how go against the flow of your Karma but sometimes they have remarkable results... [ More ]

Reply #13

DoubleDown — Sat, 06 May 2006 20:14:22 GMT

James FL said : I'm sorry to hear your steadfast descion against cremation I myself am a disabled police officer leaving with no living relatives on a fixed SSDI budget we all have to make scacrifices

I opted for cremation with a burial plot and prepaid head stone total costs 1500 dollars i can't see the need for a 5000 dollar funeral.that money you want raise for the children could be otherwise best spent on there WELFARE not whats going in the ground I think you about to learn some fast gr... [ More ]

Reply #12

SassyOhio — Sat, 06 May 2006 17:45:05 GMT

James Thank you for you HEARTLESS advice not needed. It was her childrens wishes to NOT have her cremated and THAT is what I did If all u want to do is CRITISIZE my decisions then keep your opinions to yourself and live with happiness of the decision to burn you own body WE DIDNT AND WONT

Reply #11

JamesFL — Sat, 06 May 2006 17:28:51 GMT

I'm sorry to hear your steadfast descion against cremation I myself am a disabled police officer leaving with no living relatives on a fixed SSDI budget we all have to make scacrifices

I opted for cremation with a burial plot and prepaid head stone total costs 1500 dollars i can't see the need for a 5000 dollar funeral.that money you want raise for the children could be otherwise best spent on there WELFARE not whats going in the ground I think you about to learn some fast growing up and not... [ More ]

Reply #10

LOTTOMIKE — Sat, 06 May 2006 06:11:37 GMT

i'm 31 myself.i have two babies so i definitely know how hard it is.i will definitely be looking into seeing what kind of help i can find.i'm really sorry and i'll be here if ya need any advice.........

Reply #9

cv844 — Sat, 06 May 2006 06:09:51 GMT

So sry about your loss. may God bless you and your family.

Reply #8

SassyOhio — Sat, 06 May 2006 05:49:11 GMT

I spoke to SSI today and he girls are eligablefor ssi survival benefits but it will take 60 to 90 days to get it started. The state will only help in the burial if we cremated her and THAT was NOT going to be a option. So there for they gave no funds. that is why were trying to raise the money to pay for this. I just have to figure out how to get through the next 90 days with the girls and hope that we get enough donations and raise enough to pay for the funeral and to get the girls what they n... [ More ]

Reply #7

emilyg — Sat, 06 May 2006 02:22:32 GMT

what about social security and churches helping. there is help available.

Reply #6

JamesFL — Fri, 05 May 2006 20:00:19 GMT

Sassy sorry to hear of this terrible chain of events every state has what is called an emergency indigent fund available to it for burial, catastrophic health cost etc. THIS a one time use only channeled to you thru your state health welfare agencies, this will not work if among all members in the household you have more three thousand dollars available in assetsIE 1500 checking, 1795 savings conyact local Saint Vincent Depaul foundation and Salvation Army, this will not also work if parents hav... [ More ]

Reply #5

SassyOhio — Fri, 05 May 2006 18:50:36 GMT

Tinker Thank you so much for your support Thank you ALL for you condolences.

Tinker the papay is wendymemorialfund@yahoo.com

The Bank that has a memeorial fund is 5th 3rd bank under the account Wendy Henderson/Pennington. Donations can be made at any branch. Thank you so much your support has given these girls hope I just talked to her middle daughter and told her that there we people coming to help and she started crying and said to tell u all thank you so much

Reply #4

pigsNtrees — Fri, 05 May 2006 16:25:54 GMT

I can't express enough how sorry I am for your loss, please accept my deepest sympathies and know that my prayers are with all of you. May God bless you and comfort you in your hour of grief.

Reply #3

angelm — Fri, 05 May 2006 12:31:47 GMT

Sorry for your loss=God bless

Reply #2

Tinker — Fri, 05 May 2006 06:15:42 GMT

Hi Sassy,

My prayers are with you.

Let us know the details about Paypal.

I'm willing to help.

Reply #1

emilyg — Fri, 05 May 2006 03:15:22 GMT

very sorry to hear about your loss.

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SassyOhio — Fri, 05 May 2006 02:56:24 GMT

Hello my fellow post memebers. Alot of you may know me some of you may not. My name is Karrie A.K.A. Sassy. Monday morning I lost my 33 year old sister Wendy. This is the 2nd sister that I have lost. The 1st sister that I lost 12 years ago was 16. With stacy my parents did not have life insurance on her and by the grace of GOD since she passed away at Childrens Hospital here in Columbus, there memorial Funds Foundation paid for everything to get her buried. Wendy did not have life insurance and