No choice in the matter.

Strictly a hypothetical.

I need to word this as carefully as I can.

Your wife is serving in the Military (Like a lot are and my prayers are with them before I even take a bite of food in the morning)

And you get to thinking about the great times that the two of you have had over the years or however long, and something else comes up.

Nothing wrong with it.

You are thinking about the women you love! And you are a man.

It should never be frowned upon, or any guilt whatsoever!

I just hope they all make it home safely. (Our servicemen and women)