The Pompitous Of Love

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LadyMylena — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 07:27:01 GMT

I know that you meant it in a generic way, but I thought I'd stay and rant for awhile!!! LMAO!

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rdgrnr — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 14:44:20 GMT

I'm not having that particular problem now and I didn't mean it regarding an argumentative standpoint in a relationship but more in an everyday generic sense. I think there's a chasm and that it's by design. I'm sure there's a reason for it, possibly for nothing more than the lure of the mystery itself. I do bite my tongue on a regular basis BTW, lol.

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LadyMylena — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 09:10:32 GMT

For instance, a man can think he's doing everything for his woman.....she's taken care of, there's a *nice* roof over her head, spending money, a few of the finer things in life...yet he can't understand why she's still unhappy all the time. She's thinking, "Wow, he can give me everything, and he's so good to me THAT way, but....", and she remembers all the times that he leaves, and never kisses her goodbye.... he never simply tells her that she's beautiful, to lift her spirits.... [ More ]

Original Blog Entry: The Pompitous Of Love

rdgrnr — Tue, 19 Jan 2010 10:22:15 GMT

Some people call me Space Cowboy

Some call me the Gangster of Love

Some people call me Maurice

Cuz I speak of the Pompitous of Love.

Those are lyrics from the Steve Miller song, The Joker.

Miller said that pompitous was just a jive talk word that he made up to make the song work cuz he didn't have a word to fill in that blank.

There are those who contest that but to me it is indicative of something that goes much deeper. Men will never understand the thought processes of women any more than we understand the word pompitous. Some things will always be a mystery. Maybe some things were meant to be a mystery.

Like all men, I love women. I know what they like. I know what they like to do. To be honest, I can have a lot more fun with a group of women than I can with the guys. But sometimes trying to understand what makes them tick can be frustrating. You can say something you consider to be completely innocuous and non-confrontational and it is taken to be something offensive or hurtful by someone you care about.

This will remain the mystery of the ages to me but I'll keep working on it.

Cuz I love wimmins.

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