Where Is The Courtesy ??

Reply #37

Empress-N — Thu, 29 Sep 2011 00:59:56 GMT

Too true Sully16,

But they should be no niceness when they are been blatantly disrespectful. They need to know their behavior is not acceptable by you. I agree with you, Karma has its way of paying back, but honestly I don't think they give a fiddle stick about Karma otherwise they would not be behaving that way.

Reply #36

Empress-N — Thu, 29 Sep 2011 00:53:17 GMT

With all due respect Raven62,

It's attitude's like this that keeps these disrespectful individuals behaving in this manner, many cast a blind eye to the issue allowing it to continue, some people are not willing to stand up for themselves, they choose to be the disrespected floor mat.

I say nip it in the bud, ignoring the issue allows it to become as you said It is what it is ( I DON'T THINK SO-NOT WITH ME IT ISN'T ).

Reply #35

CajunWin4 — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 22:40:38 GMT

Harve$tMoon ,

I 'm a Big believer in Karma ! What ever negativity you put out , will come back to you three fold .

Any Positive you put out you will have a ten fold return .

CW4

Reply #34

Harve$t Moon — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 22:24:06 GMT

Reply #33

rdgrnr — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 21:10:45 GMT

Very well put, sully.

Reply #32

sully16 — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 12:49:56 GMT

I have thought about this, there are givers and takers, I guess the best way to deal with the thankless takers it to tell them straight out in a nice way that you can't help anymore.

I work with the public, and some days I feel like they are sucking my soul out, at some point people like this need to be made aware, that they should try to help themselves.

I look at it this way, Karma....Fate has a way of paying people back.

Reply #31

Raven62 — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 12:21:40 GMT

Interesting: DIS is in the Dictionary

Reply #30

Raven62 — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 12:15:02 GMT

It Is What It Is: Every Social Network on the Internet is the Same: Some Worse than Others

Reply #29

CashWinner$ — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 05:21:01 GMT

Always be aware that people come's into your life for:

A Reason

A Season

or A Lifetime

and in time you will always get the opportunity to see which catogery they fall in .

Awesome saying

Reply #28

Empress-N — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 04:23:54 GMT

Thanks Teamprofit,

Reading it is one thing, an attitude adjustment is, well... quite another thing.

As we already know,

If it quacks like a duck chances are it is a duck.

You can put them on notice, but they won't refrain from their arrogant behavior.

Reply #27

TheGameGrl — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 03:43:09 GMT

Been there as well Cutlass Bob. Try as one may to be diplomatic there are some that sincerely are there for the sunny days and rain on your parade on other times.

Any time I've been graced with PM's of the kind nature , I remind myself they took the time to inquire and deserve a civil response. Its when some folks get into cattiness that its time to take the milk off the porch.

Live and learn. Life is better to have one true ally.

No one is entitled to rudeness but we sure are entitled... [ More ]

Reply #26

lakerben — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 03:38:56 GMT

I agree Empress. Most of the people I have met have been very nice. This is a great forum. It's the technology that makes them act that way. Like someone once said Distance gives them courage , but yeah, I'm learning and I make mistakes, but I've given as many tips as I have received.

Reply #25

Empress-N — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 03:25:18 GMT

Lakerben,

Some people are very thin skinned and the affliction becomes worse especially if they are experiencing money loss or personal issues. Their sense of humor goes out the window. That is if they had a sense of humor to begin with .

Don't let that change you, being good natured and enjoy joking around is a good quality to have, it keeps you young both inside and out, so don't stop being who you are because someone else do not respect or understand you or your way.

For some individ... [ More ]

Reply #24

Empress-N — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 03:09:53 GMT

CutlassBob,

Don't worry with the people that have dissed you.

Always be aware that people come's into your life for:

A Reason

A Season

or A Lifetime

and in time you will always get the opportunity to see which catogery they fall in.

Reply #23

lakerben — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 03:01:46 GMT

Yeah, I had some long time pro pm me a couple of months ago telling me off because he interpreted what I said to him as being rude. Well, he was the one taking what I said personal. I posted in the wrong forum by mistake and he went balastic. Ridiculous! I'm sure Todd understands and reads a lot of posts. Well, I'm normally good natured ,joke around a lot ,and probably too nice. Who knows. As a result of your thread, maybe its the economy or the simple reason that if a person can't afford to los... [ More ]

Reply #22

Empress-N — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 02:49:50 GMT

LOL....empty whiskey bottle, yes,

Wouldn't wanna waste any of that good old Jack

Reply #21

Empress-N — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 02:46:16 GMT

I second that Increase,

There are some genuine and sincere individuals amongst the LP family and Todd is doing a great job keeping it all together.

Reply #20

Teamprofit — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 02:22:20 GMT

Awesome topic!!! Thank you for bringing this up, hopefully some of the rude members will read it.

Reply #19

CajunWin4 — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 02:02:17 GMT

What gets me !! Is we take the time to develop our own systems and the lukers , trolls and gutter trash want more . Just , because they simply can't understand or comprehend how they work. They go off and say Your system does not work ! or they want to steal youre system . I've released a few of my own systems just like many others . Those systems are obsolete for game use . Systems change just like the games ...

The matrix of the games change .

Every time a Lotto Corp. does a machine s... [ More ]

Reply #18

CutlassBob — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 01:31:12 GMT

I agree! Some rudeness i have experienced is when you think you've made friends then when the going gets tough and you need some support the friends are history.

I've been dissed, being dissed is the act of being disconnected, by voice or by another party by folks i've meet here. But it's fine with me. I learn to keep mostly to myself.

I would like the winning numbers everyday too. Not 2 of the winning numbers, aka pairs 2 out of 3 ain't bad but gets you nothing.

Cutla$$Bob... [ More ]

Reply #17

tiggs95 — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 01:24:06 GMT

When ridge zigs you zag and don't forget to duck he throws a mean bottle of wiskey bottle...an empty one of course..

Reply #16

increase — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 01:16:48 GMT

Empress-N:

I agree.

I will not even bother to give you my dissertation on the subject.

You are not alone. I've encountered all of the above and then some.

Todd is a great administrator, and I've met some truly genuine and sincere individuals. Those are the ONLY reasons I still post.

Reply #15

mrcoco5 — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 01:03:41 GMT

lol

Reply #14

Empress-N — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 00:58:03 GMT

Tiggs95,

You are too smooth...lol

One Tequila.....Two Tequila.....Three Tequila.....Floor....lol.

Reply #13

tiggs95 — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 21:18:55 GMT

Could you run that by tiggs again...but a bit slower this time...thank you...

Reply #12

tiggs95 — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 21:17:30 GMT

You have no idea how many times tiggs has said this girlfriend!!...Ride on!!!!..

Reply #11

Empress-N — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 19:51:19 GMT

B$Rizzle,

The sooner some people realize that, the better it might be for them. We have read many news stories here on LP where some people have played the same numbers for many many years before their win comes.

Guess that part of the story they conveniently skip over.

Reply #10

luckyshoes — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 19:44:00 GMT

Well said, empress-N

Reply #9

B$Rizzle — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 19:30:25 GMT

I agree Empress-N, throughout my years playing the lottery, I've learned the most important thing is to be patient stay positive. Things don't happen over night

Reply #8

Empress-N — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 19:25:51 GMT

CajunWin4,

Patience is not some people's verture, when they ask they want the exact winning numbers for the very draw they intend to play, without taking any of these situations into consideration.

Pray tell, if we all were 100% percise with all of our predictions, the lottery commissions would probably definately go out of business.

Don't allow the rotten apples to spoil what you are doing, there are some good people here that appreciate and respects what you do.

Reply #7

B$Rizzle — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 19:25:36 GMT

I never really have issues with PM's. But I have noticed in the past where certain members have posted questions about different lottery games, rules, etc. I have answered their questions and they seem unappreciative. I feel as though I am a nice guy, and there was one specific thread on LP where I answered the persons question as they asked, and they were completely rude about my response. I was like wtf, I took time out of my day to answer your question??? since then I learned I keep on the DL... [ More ]

Reply #6

mrcoco5 — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 19:22:18 GMT

thank you Empress-N ,I could not say it any better than that

Reply #5

Empress-N — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 19:10:20 GMT

Mrcoco5, I can only define this as a state of ungratefulness. Some people do not take into consideration the time and energy it takes to workup numbers for their benefit, thus they stand unappreciative regardless of our efforts.

Reply #4

CajunWin4 — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 18:56:22 GMT

Empress-N ,

I understand exactly , some people expect you to give them Winning Number Sets every time .. But , they dont understand you must play the sets for the Long Haul of the play cycle. If it means playing the sets for 5 to 10 future draws . Because , a system has a Winning Streak does not mean it can't go Cold for a little while . They need to pick 1 or 2 games and stick with them for the duration of game play .

All it takes is 1 Rotten apple to spoil , a whole barrel .. I'm temp... [ More ]

Reply #3

mrcoco5 — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 18:46:07 GMT

Hi Empress-N

I know what you re talking about their was one person that pm asking for some pairs and so I took out the time to work them up some pairs like they asked for and pm them back with their pairs and told them to compare with their own systems will to make a long story short, that same person pm me back the next day cussing me out because they lost in the evening draw telling me it was all my fault that they lost money!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Go figure

Reply #2

Empress-N — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 18:36:25 GMT

No Rdgrnr,

Even in you drunken stupor, you have too much respect and courteousness about you to do that. You are a southern gentleman

Reply #1

rdgrnr — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 18:26:18 GMT

Hope it wasn't me Empress-N.

Sometimes I read em and my computer or my dialup won't let me reply right away and then I might forget about em in a drunken stupor.

Where Is The Courtesy ??

Empress-N — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 18:07:25 GMT

Definition of COURTESY

1. behavior marked by polished manners or respect for others : courteous behavior b: a courteous and respectful act or expression.

2. consideration, cooperation, and generosity in providing something (as a gift or privilege).

Why are some people so flipping rude?

Is it that difficult or complicated to respond to someone's PM?

If someone PM's you for information that you prefer not to share, how hard is it for you to respond? (a simply NO would suffice... [ More ]