I agree. I think this applies to everything in life, not just personal relationships I see people cheating others all the time, especially in sales and services. Then I think "they can't possibly love these people" because money comes before caring. Think I'm going to be asked to leave my company, because my boss said I was spending too much time explaining a plan to some women in their 80s after a seminar. I don't like pressuring people (it's also against the law) into these MA plans until the client understands them. But the object is to get as many enrollments as possible within a few minutes while they're eating a free meal. Today 2 of them called me at home because they like me and I'll probably earn their business after the holiday. (If I'm still there!) Giving feels a lot better than taking, except when it comes to paying my bills! lol