This makes me think of my son Michael there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of him ...I see kids... young boys about his age and think about what his life would be like right now... its November and a very hard month for me ......sometimes I think April is the hardest but then November comes around am I'm like man how am I going to get through this month again. November 23rd he would be 24 this year seems like a life time ago ......never tell someone how they should feel