Please excuse the language but neither the author nor I were the first to use it. 

I feel his suggestion in the last paragraph should be followed for meetings with congress and the press. 

S***HOLE OR NO S***HOLE?

By: John Hinderaker Source: Powerlineblog.com

"Today on ABC’s This Week, Senator David Perdue, who was present,  flatly denied  that President Trump referred to any countries as “s***holes” during a meeting with a small group of legislators:

Republican Sen. David Perdue (Ga.) on Sunday said President Trump did not use the word “hole” to refer to African nations, Haiti and El Salvador during a White House meeting with lawmakers.
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“I’m telling you he did not use that word, George. And I’m telling you it’s a gross misrepresentation. How many times do you want me to say that?” Perdue said after host George Stephanopoulos pressed him for an answer.
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“The gross misrepresentation was that language was used in there that was not used and also that the tone of that meeting was not contributory and not constructive,” the Georgia Republican said. ...."

" ....Years ago, some of the lawyers in my office had a series of cases around the country in which they were opposed by another Twin Cities law firm. The lawyers in that law firm were so dishonest, and so given to misrepresenting their conversations with my partners in various courts, that eventually my partners refused to have any telephone conversations with them unless a court reporter was on the line, and a transcript was prepared. President Trump is perhaps at the point where he should take similar measures to prevent Democrats (and perhaps some Republicans) from lying about his conversations with him."

http://www.powerlineblog.com/archives/2018/01/shole-or-no-shole.php