I step in to help when needed but I would have "No" lol problem saying "No" when asked for money. I was taken by a man down and out and realized I was scammed after the fact, it will not happen again. A month later a woman tried the same scam in the same shopping center and I told her you and your partner got me one time, no more, why dont you straighten out your life and go get a job? She looked at me like I was nuts.

Thank You lejardin for your reply. Even Christ was no pushover and did not allow evil to win. Even my sister has a stronger backbone than I do. She will go far in management.
As a rapper is quoted, "more money, more problems".