I'll be 32 in September Mike. I have gray hair on my head and in my facial hair. My hair line keeps moving back on top of my head but at least I don't have white hair. My brother is going to be 34 this year and he shaves his head so he does not have to look at the color change in his hair.-weshar75

yes. when i was taking care of Dad - (Alzheimers) felt there were not enough hours in the day.
why doesn't your mate help you???

weshar.i'll be shaving it first thing tomorrow.thought about it.then when you said that about your brother it got me thinking about it a little more.emily....we were stunned to have two babies so close together.only bad thing is i had to spend nine months with her both times making sure she made it.about seven years ago she had a bad car wreck that shattered her pelvic bones,tore he legs and knees to pieces.the car hit a pole and broke completely in half but she survived.an angel was watching over me as i decided to sit at home that night while they did a beer run for her 21st birthday.well they didn't make it back and i got pissed and went home.my grandmother woke me later and told me to get to the hospital it was bad.she spent weeks in the hospital and had to go to therapy and was in a wheelchair for a long time.she then changed her life around but by then she had too many driving violations so its going to cost thousands to get her license so all these burdens fall on me.i do resent it at times.i'll give you an example.i worked all night last night and would've been up all today too because she had an appointment this morning.i give out from exhaustion and told her to take the van and go even with no license because i was at the breaking point as far as rest.its hard because she has all these appointments and the kids are going to a hearing clinic so i'm doing tests there every week too plus my stuff.

Mike - that is a lot on your shoulders. God Bless you.