I find it hard to depend on others for the simple reason that i did come to depend on others and when they were not there for me i was devastated,so i plan to protect myself and try not to be too dependent on others,sometimes i guess i forget other people have a life and responsibilites but i didn't think of that while i was depending on them,my problem is when i depend on a person or persons i expect for them to be available right away but in real life that is not the case so i woke and say "Delores Welcome to the Real World" Already Now!!