Well my mother has a habit of not telling she has not paid a bill until I get my check every month.  So I am stuck spend my money on her bills and she has done it for the last two months.  I live with her so I am obligated to pay them because they will cut services if the bill is not paid so I get angry at her and then I go get my check book and write out a check for the bill and pay it.  But I hope at least someone see's how wrong it is for her to leave it to me to pay her bills.  I pay the rent by myself,  I pay her car insurance and her cell phone bill every month and if she has the money to pay me back in her check she tries.  But last month she owed me $700 big ones from all the bills I paid for her and she only gave me back $200 so I get frustrated.  But what do you do because it is my mother and she is on a fixed income from social security just like I get SSDI from the government.  I will continue to pay as long as I can because she needs the help and since I have a blog on here I will just vent form time to time.  Thanks for listening everyone.-weshar75