FYI -- Ray and Janay got married one month after the attack.

It's all about the money, he could have put her in traction and she still would have married him for his money..This is not the last time that he will do this to her, my mother taught me that if a man hits you once he will do it again...they all do it again.........

I can relate to this and it is not just Black men. I mentioned in a blog about some trash, in my family tree. My mom's sister was married to a drunk, and he would beat her every time he got drunk. She would leave him and she and the kids, five of them would come and live with us for, 2-3 months at a time. God, finally removed her from that hellhole marriage. Every one of the kids grew up became dependent on the government.

It's pretty sad that people feel that they can hit each other and it's okay. I am a woman and I would never put my hands on anybody, i was raised that way. My Father always said do not put your hands on a man and not expect for him to hit you back!!!! If you are angry give it to God and walk away, now if he puts his hands on you, take that gun I brought you and trained you on how to use it at 18 and send him to glory!!!