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Posted: April 25, 2005, 8:22 am - IP Logged

Hi all...I need help sorting my dream. I feel our dreams can be warnings,so I take mine seriously. But because of

things that happened prior to the dream I am confused..ok gonna start from beginning.



REAL LIFE: About 9 days ago,my husband and I were bringing in things that were out our backdoor,I had sat things right out the backdoor so that a carpet cleaning crew could do their job. When they were finished Hubby and I began bringing things into our bedroom...Ok all things brought in were small pieces and just had to be sat right insde door as rain was heading to area. Our daughter (almost 2) went out the door and was walking around thr pool..I immediately told her to come back in,but hubby thought I was being ridiculous,maybe overprotective since we were standing right there he said "she's fine,should she fall in,we would hear her and I could jump right in"..My thought...he's right,I am being silly... well maybe 3 minutes later I sat something inside doorway of our bedroom looked for my daughter and she was in the spa(connected to pool) trying to keep her head above water....I freaked out screaming to my hubby who immediately jumped in and got her....we never heard one thing,not a splash,she never cried out for help...NOTHING....now when I tell you we were standing right there,our pool is immediately out the back door. the pool and spa deck is hooked to the house,and the door our of our room is maybe 6 feet from the pool edge....I cannot imagine why we never heard anything...ok so if this episode is not bad enough for a mom,A few days later I had this dream



DREAM:    I am in a parking lot with my daughter,who takes off running..I am chasing her, but no matter how hard I try,I cannot catch her,I begin trying to trick her by telling her I have candy..still she does not stop...I see her heading for traffic,but I can't stop her...then she stops but there is a purple car right beside her with 3 black women in hats talking and laughing (they do not see her at all) I am screaming for them to stay stopped but they cannot hear me..then the unmentionable happens,they run over my daughter...I can see her under the car and can tell they have not hit her with the tires ,so again I start screaming in hopes she will be alright,but the they began driving away dragging her...then I wake



everything on my body is tingling when I awake....I cannot lose this image,And now fear it was a warning....can anyone offer any help...This is overwhelming me daily..thanks



I should offer this info,she is a gift....My hubby and I have been married 25 years this summer,we have 3 sons 24,19 and 17...I prayed to God for every one of those years for a daughter. On our 22nd wedding anniversary I got pregnant...SO maybe all this plays into my fears of losing her.....Her name Gracelyn (Grace because we have been Graced By God)..ok.you all,thanks for any help..even if you don't think it may be helpful I apprecaite you trying...thanks Gina

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    Posted: April 25, 2005, 8:41 am - IP Logged

    you have inside fear Gina of losing her........that is only natural.  If she was a gift from God, He will protect her.

    BUT, I would maybe keep an extra tight rein on her the next few weeks.  I have had horrible dreams that never develop......a dream is our subconscience telling us something about what we fear sometimes.  I would not let it consume me but I would be careful.

    Just make sure you pray to the Lord to protect her. 

    I am not a dream specialist...........so these are just my thoughts.  By the way, my oldest daughter almost drown in our pool when she was 2 and hit by a car when she was 3..........her leg was a tangled mess...but they repaired it as good as new.................and I NEVER dreamt that.  I have more fear now for my grandchildren than I ever did for my children.  Just a uneasiness inside me that I know is foolish.  But even when they have a cold, I run over to them because of that uneasiness.........so I do understand your fears...................just trust that the Lord will take care of her and watch her especially carefully for a bit.

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      Posted: April 25, 2005, 8:56 am - IP Logged

      Thanks Sandy...I think you stated what I am feeling. I sometimes wonder if the good lord just gave her to me

      so that I would not live and die my life never having a daughter..but that his plans are to take her back to heaven long before I would want her to go...Maybe seems a little over the top...but they are true fears of mine..Thanks Sandy and be assured I have been keeping a much closer eye on her. Gina

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        Posted: April 25, 2005, 8:59 am - IP Logged

        You have to be extra careful around pools - your initial instincts were correct.  I would never, never, never allow a 2 year-old aound water without an adult standing directly next to them at all times.  They also make great kids' bathing suits that have built-in floatation, without being too bulky.

         

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          Posted: April 25, 2005, 9:06 am - IP Logged

          Todd..thanks,and yes I agree with all you stated. Always trust your first instincts..ALWAYS! second,never assume you will hear a child fall in...we heard nothing and we were right near her.....I also have signed her up for swimming lessons this summer. Now about the floatation device,I tried those,they are really not safe,my child floated,but face first in the water with one of these. I think they are meant for a child who can get around a bit in the pool. I think teaching Gracelyn to swim and make it at least over to the side or steps is vital. The strange thing is ,we have a pool alarm. it sounds if there is any movement detected...what we had'nt thought of is her getting in the spa. Now had it been someone bigger the spa would have flowed over the top and into the pool therefore setting off the alarm. but I guess her weight is not enough to send water over the waterspill into the spa. thanks,gina

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            Posted: April 25, 2005, 11:24 am - IP Logged

            Seeing your daughter in your dream, represents your waking relationship with your daughter and the qualities that she projects. If you do not have a daughter, then it symbolizes the feminine aspect within yourself

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              Posted: April 25, 2005, 11:55 am - IP Logged

              Gracie...it's weird that you said that about the spa............a child just died in Michigan I think doing exactly that...crawled into the spa......and the parents were home...........

              We have a hot tub and I told my husband a couple months ago that we need to make sure the flaps are locked for the grandbabies.....they will walking soon..............like I said, I have an inner fear for my grandsons.

              My daughter has a pool (our old house) and she and my other daughter are taking my grandsons for swimming lessons very soon........before the season starts............my children could all actually swim by the time they were a year old but we always had a pool so it was a must.  My other daughter lives right on a canal to Lake St. Clair and I am just having fits about that one............they need to get their kids swimming lessons...period................

              I think that is the key for Grace.......also I had three children under 3 at one time......and my husband traveled.........and when I went out....one was in the stroller........one was in my arms.......and one had to grab my pantleg at all times.......if he let go of my pants, he got disciplined.......make sure Grace is in your control around the traffic and things............one time I took my eye off my daughter and she went after a ball and did get hit by a car.........it happened in seconds....literally seconds..........so just remember that.............

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                Posted: April 26, 2005, 7:02 am - IP Logged

                Thanks ,Sandy,Chou ,Todd and Emily...all very wise words. You know a complete stranger was talking to me just two weeks ago and began telling me of her daughters death (a drowning)when she was finished she was leterally in tears,in her story she also shared the word of Christ with me many times and then apologized and said"I do not know why I am telling you this,I have never done this before ,forgive me" I told her I felt that God had led her to me for a reason and that there was definitely a message in her story. We ended up talking for over 1 hour in a furniture store. Then this episode happens.

                Gracie and I are going to the beach the first week in June,and I am terrified now.....though we will be right on the ocean,I am not an ocean lover. So I can't imagine we will actually be in the ocean water. But of course just being around water is serious with a two year old.



                Again,thanks you all for responding with such kindness,it is appreciated...thanks,gina

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                  Posted: April 26, 2005, 10:38 am - IP Logged

                   Hello  Gina,

                  I'm riding your story, yes this is the angel  ( stanger )come  to give you the  message  extra caution, 

                   The answer all around us

                  Big Hug your Grace

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                    Posted: April 26, 2005, 2:37 pm - IP Logged

                    Thanks Eva,much appreciated...gina

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