Single mother who won $6 million in lottery opens up about the good and bad of winning millions

Oct 30, 2023, 4:34 pm (24 comments)

After the Big Win

Winner is still doing financially well even though she was tempted to splurge

By Kate Northrop

While many hopeful lottery players dream about the cars they'd drive, the places they'd vacation to, and the mansions they'd buy if they ever won big, a single mother stepped forward seven years after her $6 million win to talk about what makes winning millions in the lottery so tricky.

When a single mother won $6 million in her state lottery, she didn't expect the sudden changes that were about to come her way. Seven years later, she's opening up about the win to shed light on how she dealt with them and made good use of her fortune.

In 2016, Gloria Easly won a $6 million prize on a scratch-off ticket, instantly putting her on a path that she'd have to navigate with caution.

The moment Easly saw she had won big, she knew she wanted to stay under the radar, she told Insider in an interview. In fact, she encountered her first test immediately upon winning the prize.

She had grabbed a claim form from the scratch-off machine in the retailer she bought the winning ticket at, but she left the store without letting the cashier behind the counter take a selfie with her and the winning ticket she purchased there.

"He said, 'Let me take a picture,'" Easly recounted to Insider. "No, thank you,' I said."

Accompanied by a friend, she made her way to the Lottery's headquarters to file a claim. The state in which she won was not named in order to accommodate Easly's concerns about privacy.

When she arrived, a Lottery official brought her into a private room, and he confirmed her $6 million win. She had a choice to make — accept the prize as an annuity for the full amount, or a one-time, lump sum payment of a smaller amount.

She took the $3 million lump sum and immediately deposited it into an account she had set up the same day she won.

The official had also asked her whether she'd like to publicly disclose her name, which she turned down.

"You don't want to put it all over the place," she explained. "I thought, 'I have two children. I have a family.' Maybe I watched a little too many movies, but I was thinking of ransom and stuff like that."

While she declined to appear in the Lottery's media, word did travel around her neighborhood that she had won a lottery prize of some kind.

"My friend was telling people I'd won $30,000 but she didn't have the amount right," Easly said. That was when she started to feel "worried about [her] safety."

The first person she told about the prize after her friend was her daughter, who was working at a fast-food restaurant at the time of the win. With people "coming out of the woodwork," even those who had been unreliable in the past, Easly had her priorities in check.

"I knew that, first and foremost, the best thing was to get my kids out," the single mother said. "People were calling me during the second day, and I remember thinking, 'Where were you when I was having a hard time?'"

Within ten days of the win, Easly had moved her son, now 13, her daughter, now 29, and her grandson, now 13, into a hotel in a neighboring state. She and her family started looking at new homes in a new state, ultimately deciding on two houses "just around the corner from each other on a cul-de-sac."

Easly bought both three-bedroom, two-bathroom houses for $200,000 in cash, each.

"Mine was a ranch because I didn't want any steps," Easly added. "I'd been walking up steps a lot of years."

The 44-year-old winner was setting her and her family up for success, but she'd be lying if she said she didn't feel the temptation to splurge.

"I know I could have blown through the money and gotten into difficulties," she admitted.

Rather than leave it to chance, she started working with financial advisor Eszylfie Taylor, who was introduced to her by Easly's cousin.

Taylor has advised several professional athletes and celebrities, as well as business owners and high net worth families. He founded Taylor Insurance and Financial Services, which is based in Pasadena, California. At the start of his professional relationship with Easly, he told Insider, he pulled no punches.

"I made it clear to Gloria that she needed to act wisely if she wanted to live on this money for the rest of her life," Taylor said.

Easly was tuned into the reality of her win and understood that the newfound wealth "could vanish in the blink of an eye," so she followed Taylor's advice and invested in stocks.

"We basically put the money into different buckets, each with a different pro and con," Taylor explained. "It was about balance and diversification."

Easly still receives requests for money from friends and family years after the win, but she is careful to recognize when someone might be taking advantage of her and is mindful of to whom she lends an ear.

"I gave them little pieces when it first happened, but it's not a revolving door when you keep coming back," she said. "You get a lot of requests, but you can't be picking up the phone every five minutes. It's hard to say 'no,' but you have to realize that people sometimes see us as dollar signs."

It's not just important to pay attention to who is requesting money, but what they are requesting money for. Easly said she still reviews person's request on a case-by-case basis.

"It's one thing if someone is saying, 'I want to buy shoes, go to a show and get my hair done,'" she clarified. "It's another if my mom's sister, my great-aunts, or my cousins need it for other reasons."

Today, the lottery winner is in a good place financially, and she hasn't allowed the win to change who she is.

"The biggest thing is relief for my kids and their future," she said. "I wouldn't say the money made me happy. If it takes money to make you happy, then you won't ever be happy."

"I still shop in the places I shopped before," she continued. "I'm not the kind of person who spends $100,000 on a car. The only thing that's changed about me is moving to a new state and the area-code change."

Easly said she did find herself "gambling more" after the win, frequenting the casino and slot machines, but she "had to pull [herself] back off."

If there's one luxury she'll allow herself to enjoy, it's designer shoes and handbags, but there's still nothing more satisfying than a good deal. She recently found a Gucci purse that normally goes for $10,000 at full retail value that she got for $3,500.

She's also treated her family to trips to Disney World and Universal Studios, and they regularly vacation in California. She has no interest in traveling overseas, however, and does not have a passport.

"It's not something I've thought about just because the money is there," she elaborated. "I'm not going to book a flight to Paris or Italy, stay over, and spend a bunch of money to have to come back."

Lastly, Easly has no interest in romance, having remained single and saying she "can take it or leave it."

"You never know the motive," she stated. "I've been on my own for a long time. I'm not buying anybody. I'm OK as I am."

Thanks to Win$500quick for the tip.

Lottery Post Staff

Comments

hearsetrax's avatarhearsetrax

Smart lady and I'm proud of her for her 'tude 

the battle with temptation never ends, I wish her and the family tons of continued luck

Artist77's avatarArtist77

Yes, very smart. And she prefers Gucci. Me too. But when are Gucci handbags ever on sale? Perhaps a previously owned one?

Bleudog101

All the years reading about lottery winners she is definitely in my top five for smart winners.

Yeah the part of folks crawling out of the woodwork and nowhere to be found when she needed them.

Moving to another state and great financial adviser top notch plans of action.

 

Congratulations again to this lucky lady!!

sdw1000

Not much of a friend if she's babbling about your business. They'd be an ex-friend to me. At least she had the right idea!

shyn888's avatarshyn888

Just wanted to say Kudos to you Mom. "That's the way to do it, money for nothing, & your music for free! Now that ain't working, let me tell ya this woman ain't dumb." It sure seems to me that you have made all the right moves, & it's clear you have a wise head on your shoulders. Most after just the first year, if that long, would have blown through every single dime up to that point. Most do not know how to bank the principle, & then live off of the interest, which by the way, would be well more than what they were averaging on an annual basis. So like I said from the very start of this comment: Kudos to you dear!

Bleudog101

Quote: Originally posted by shyn888 on Oct 30, 2023

Just wanted to say Kudos to you Mom. "That's the way to do it, money for nothing, & your music for free! Now that ain't working, let me tell ya this woman ain't dumb." It sure seems to me that you have made all the right moves, & it's clear you have a wise head on your shoulders. Most after just the first year, if that long, would have blown through every single dime up to that point. Most do not know how to bank the principle, & then live off of the interest, which by the way, would be well more than what they were averaging on an annual basis. So like I said from the very start of this comment: Kudos to you dear!

I want my MTV...

GiveFive's avatarGiveFive

Her whole plan revolves around the fact that she's trying to preserve her money for not only for herself but for future generations as well.  Are you aware of the fact that for many people who inherit great wealth, grandpa's fortune usually doesn't make it to his grandkids? 

It's obvious to me that she also understands something else about having money beyond preserving her wealth.  And that's just because your money allows you to do something does not mean you should do it.  I've read many stories in the media about people of wealth buying sophisticated airplanes that they piloted themselves.  Many of them have died doing just that.  John Denver died flying an experimental aircraft.  JFK jr, his wife and sister in law died when he flew an expensive single engine aircraft into weather conditions his private pilot's license was not rated for. Although his plane could easily be flown by using  it's instruments, he was not qualified/rated to fly in "IFR" (instrument flight rules or bad weather) conditions. 

That big money can get you into serious trouble.  G5

CDanaT's avatarCDanaT

Excellent story and very organized lady. Kudos to her for protecting her family and future finances. Smart for buying the $200K homes as not to draw attention. Had the whole plan thought out pretty well,especially not wanting info put out... Congrats Gloria, May you enjoy your wealth for many years to come.

ekem6078's avatarekem6078

Quote: Originally posted by sdw1000 on Oct 30, 2023

Not much of a friend if she's babbling about your business. They'd be an ex-friend to me. At least she had the right idea!

I agree.   After her telling everyone my business, I would treat her with kid gloves.  She were probably the first  with her hands stuck out.  🤣

ekem6078's avatarekem6078

Kudos!!  to you Lucky Lady.  You sound like a very wise and independent lady.  Don't know where you would buy two homes for $200,000 each, this day and age, but a very wise decision.  Good Luck and keep up the good work in securing your new found wealth 💰💰 By the way Kick your friend to the curb for telling your business or keep a tight lip from now on. 😆

HoLeeKau's avatarHoLeeKau

Quote: Originally posted by Bleudog101 on Oct 30, 2023

All the years reading about lottery winners she is definitely in my top five for smart winners.

Yeah the part of folks crawling out of the woodwork and nowhere to be found when she needed them.

Moving to another state and great financial adviser top notch plans of action.

 

Congratulations again to this lucky lady!!

I wonder how many "friends" she lost and how many suddenly "close cousins" quit calling after she told them no money?

I would stay anonymous if at all possible, but the above is one good reason to go public.  You sure find out who your real friends are!

jjtheprince14

This lady is like the opposite of Edwin Castro who we'll probably read about going broke within the next 10 years.

JustMaybe

I am happy for Gloria, that she resisted the temptation to splurge and instead used the winnings to safeguard both hers and the kids financial future.

3 million is not a ton of money but if managed well then it could lead to a comfortable life and that really is what counts.

I am happy that she also got a trust worthy financial advisor who helped to keep her grounded and focused on the bigger picture and did not take her on a wild goose chase.

I hope the kids will emulate her and build on the gains and grow the nest egg.

I have been reading a lot on money psychology and how Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) can have a tremendous impact on a person's future. So with this knowledge, I am a little forgiving for individuals that squander their lottery wins in a short time.

Just like people struggle with substance abuse and try so hard to get free, but fall back time and again, getting into a lot of money and having all these past experiences can trigger behavior that leads to ruin.

When we all face our pasts and are aware how it impacts our actions, then we could have more lottery winner stories that end like "and they lived happily after"

Stack47

Quote: Originally posted by jjtheprince14 on Oct 31, 2023

This lady is like the opposite of Edwin Castro who we'll probably read about going broke within the next 10 years.

Castro won over $600 million after taxes and she got about $2 million. The article doesn't mention her net worth seven years later, but she is probably living off her investments.

Subscribe to this news story