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The Shamer

                    this person can be hazardous to your health.  the shamer may cut you off, put you down, reprimand you, or make fun of you or your ideas in front of others.  he/she often ignores your boundaries and may try to convince you that his/her criticism is for your own good.  the shamer is the kind of person who makes you question your own sanity.

The drainer

                  this is the needy person who calls to ask for your guidance, support, information, advice or whatever . she/he needs to feel better in the moment.  because of their neediness, the conversation often revolves around them, and you can almost feel the life being sucked out of you during the conversation.

the Blamer

                    this person likes to hear his/her own voice.  they constantly complain about what isn't working in their life and yet gets energy from complaining and dumping his/her frustrations on you.

some people constantly drain your energy. Some types of people  will exhaust you or deter you from your path to living a fulfilled life.

                            The DISCOUNTER - this is the person who discounts or challenges everything you say.  Often, she/he has a strong need to be right and can find fault with any position.  it can be exhausting to have a conversation with the discounter.

i live my life in my own way

                          you can't go around being what everyone wants you to be,living your life through other people's rules, and expect to be happy and have inner peace.

i align myself with people who support my growth

                          if you meet someone whose soul is not aligned with yours, send them love and move along.

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i release all feelings of worry and guilt

                              Throughout life, the two most futile emtions are guilt for what has been done, and worry about what might be done.

i forgive myself, and then move on

                    you can sit there forever, lamenting about how bad you've been, feeling guilty until you die, and not one tiny slice of that guilt will do anything to change anything in the past.

what other people think of me is none of my business

            one of the highest places you can  get to is to be independant of the good opinions of other people.

iam responsible for the day i create for myself

                    The choice is up to you.  It can either be "good morning, God!"  or "good God - morning!"

i answer to myself and no one else

                  The person looking back at you in the mirror is the one you have to answer to every day.

i choose the path of kindness

            the more you extend kindness to yourself, the more it will become your automatic respnse to others.

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