CONCORD, N.H. — Jeff Wilson's life changed forever two years ago when he plucked a winning Powerball ticket worth millions from a number of lottery tickets bought by his father, Billy.
The father and son, and former Kings Mountain residents, were at Charlotte Motor Speedway Friday as part of the hoopla surrounding the lottery-sponsored Camping World Truck Series event and NASCAR Sprint All-Star Race Weekend.
The younger Wilson, dressed in blue jeans and untucked plaid shirt, and his father, wearing khakis and a white knit shirt, described themselves as regular guys.
Neither wore jewelry, but like a lot of race fans, each had a baseball cap on their heads. Nothing distinguished them from other race fans other than Jeff Wilson teaming up with wrestling icon Ric Flair to help judge a contest for race grand marshal and honorary starter sponsored by radio station WRFX.
Both Wilsons talked about the good and the crazy that occurred after winning so much money and why they won't be the subjects of another story about lottery winners going broke.
For the record, the lottery ticket won by Jeff Wilson in June 2009 was worth $88.1 million, but because he chose to take a lump sum the final value came in at $42.4 million. After state and federal taxes he cleared about $28.8 million.
How does becoming an instant millionaire change a person?
Not at all if you're Billy Wilson.
"As people, it hasn't changed us," he said. "The old saying is money doesn't buy happiness so you have to be happy with your life."
Jeff Wilson said. "I don't want it to change me so it hasn't.
"Now I just have a bigger house," said Jeff Wilson, who turned 29 earlier this month.
Billy Wilson: "We live around a bunch of millionaires and some of them are the most miserable people on earth. Just because you have money doesn't make you any better than anyone else and sometimes it seems like they forgot that."
What do you do with the money?
"It's given us an opportunity to do some things that we wouldn't have been able to do," said Billy Wilson. "We've traveled some, bought a new house. But we've also given money to groups like Holy Angels in Belmont and St. Jude (Children's Research Hospital)."
Jeff Wilson: "Everyone thinks you go out and have a big party. You pretty much have to get a crash course in taxes or you'll pay a lot. We've already paid a lot."
Billy Wilson: "It gives you security in life. You hear a lot about (lottery) winners going broke, but I don't see how.
"You get sound bankers, good accountants and lawyers and you can do some good if you don't go and do stupid things."
What has changed?
Billy Wilson: "I went from someone who worked 15 hours a day as a (general manager) of a car dealership to someone who can now do what they want. It takes some getting use to.
"You don't have to worry about buying groceries or the power bill, but you do have a separate sort of problems."
Jeff Wilson says he just enjoys hanging out with friends and fishing. He worked in real estate before striking it rich and still does, but he also looks after investments.
He still lives with his parents in North Carolina.
"But we have other houses," he added.
Neither Wilson wanted to say exactly where they live. Things turned so crazy at their house in Kings Mountain after the lottery win they never lived there again.
Too many people would turn up there looking for handouts or help. The Wilsons now channel their giving through a foundation they established.
One person from as far away as Russia showed up once asking for $150,000, Billy Wilson said.
"He wanted me to invest in whatever his crazy scheme was," Billy Wilson said. "That's what you have to dig through."
Making a difference
Contributions go to larger groups and individuals who need help. Money sent to a boy in Louisiana will help with medical bills. Other money will go to help pay for alcohol monitoring devices for low-income offenders in Mecklenburg County.
Both Wilsons said they hope they're making a difference in the lives of the less fortunate. Helping others includes contributions to Holy Angels in Belmont, a residential facility for children and adults with mental and physical disabilities.
"If you can walk in Holy Angels and take a tour without shedding a tear you're not human," Billy Wilson said. "It gives you satisfaction that you are helping someone."
Relationships
Billy Wilson, 58, will celebrate his 41st wedding anniversary in December.
Jeff Wilson said after news of his big win leaked out he had a lot of people trying to be his new best friend. Things have settled out a lot since then.
"I'm not married, but I'm not single," he said of his current relationship status.
His lady friend works a regular job and must deal with the public every day. He doesn't want to complicate her life by letting everyone know she has a friend with a lot of disposable income, so he doesn't mention her name.
Both Wilsons said they try not to think about how much money is in their bank accounts, but they concede that the money does provide a sense of security.
They also have to deal with telling some people no, a fact some find hard to believe.
"As long as the family knows what's going on and God knows what's going on, I don't worry about the rest," Billy Wilson said.
Congratulation to Mr. Billy & Jeff Wilson; it's nice to read about stories like this....
And neither belonged to Lottery Post.
Another great story, Congrats to the Wilsons.
And you know that how?
Great story ................ a lottery win doesn't have to turn into a nightmare!
Just waiting for my big win ..................
"He wanted me to invest in whatever his crazy scheme was," Billy Wilson said. "That's what you have to dig through."
Neither Wilson wanted to say exactly where they live. Things turned so crazy at their house in Kings Mountain after the lottery win they never lived there again.
Too many people would turn up there looking for handouts or help. The Wilsons now channel their giving through a foundation they established.
One person from as far away as Russia showed up once asking for $150,000, Billy Wilson said.
Probably the most worrisome thing about hitting it big. Makes you wonder if you need to move, de-list your number, go into Witness Protection before you make your claim.
I wouldn't worry too much with all my dogs around.
I have a sign on my gravel road coming up into my holler that says: "Best to remain still while the dogs are biting you".
And another one as you enter the holler. It's a picture of a target with the message: "You Are Now In Range".
I never get any visitors.
A few years ago some people came out here from Pittsburgh ................... they were about to burglarize a house when a neighbor that was related to the homeowner came down the road, stopped, and fired his gun to miss, and all were caught. No "visitors" from Pittsburgh after that!
1st order of business is to find a hideout if you win, and then be sensible. No interviews or pics!
Their first mistake was not claiming in a Trust or LLC. Sounds like they have good heads on their shoulders and are planning for their future. Hopefully they will make good decisions and not go broke....Best of luck Wilsons!
When I win, I am going to claim the prize incognito. I have been watching enough old Eddie Murphy and Martin Lawrence movies where they portray other characters...that is exactly what I will do. But I will be dressed that way as the representative for the winning family...their financial advisor and the lawyer will also be in attendance. I will instruct the media to only take pictures of the lawyer and financial representative...then after that, I will slip into the restroom, change and come claim my prize. Sound like a plan? Actually that sounds like too much trouble. I think I will just claim it in trust, and wear a ball cap and oversized jacket so no one will be able to recognize me as I normally appear.
And like the BEPs sing....I have a feeling...that tonight's going to be a good night.........or maybe tomorrow night.....or maybe this week!!!!
Thanks for the two ideas, petergrfn. How much in taxes (fed and state) would have been saved, now that you've peaked our interest with these two different lottery jackpot claiming methods?
On an unrelated note, the article reads that Billy bought the ticket but gave it to his son, Jeff. Consequently, Jeff's name was on the lottery headquarter's promotional blimp check. However, the article somewhat insinuates a few times that Billy possesses big lottery monies from Jeff. So, what's going on? Did Jeff decide to give his father millions of dollars AFTER he received his lump-sum, after-tax payment; only to be taxed a second time on those monies?
Congratulations, and keep on keeping with enjoying your new lifestyles, Wilson Family!
"As people, it hasn't changed us," he said. "The old saying is money doesn't buy happiness so you have to be happy with your life."
That's how I'd be, as a person I would stay the same but I would definitely change a bit in terms of how I lived. I think that's how most lottery winners should be. That's what I like about a good amount of the Lottery Changed My Life episodes, they have people that haven't really been affected, personality wise, by their winfalls. I think most of them end up on the Curse of the Lottery after they let the money go to their head and either cloud their judgement or just made them feel like they were untouchable with all that money.
I'd also say that having that kind of disposable income would definitely increase my happiness level. I could get a Mustang for when I want to drive around the country and then a Tahoe for when I want to get out to a lake and fish.
Congratualtions to them though for still living like normal people and not letting the money change them for the worse.
Lastly, I remembered seeing some videos on YouTube a while back and found them on my playlist. They definitely seem like good people from the two videos.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kQ6dypRI4lM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jGOzY8cuGz4
Congratulations to the Wilson's....finally folks with some sense of who they are!
I remember how they had to run to a hotel to be left alone when this first happened. I'm surprised they appeared at the speedway this weekend. They do seem to have a good head on their shoulders.
Enjoyed this story. Can't say that the Monetary gain wouldnt change a person though, some life styles changes do indeed need to happen. ANd yes I would no doubt be more diligent in my families safety and be more alert of the scammers. Funny how money can win "instant fly by night friends".
The guy said it best though, Go thru a childrens ward and you are by golly humbled by life itself.
Rdg- I reckon I wont be bring yun's any sweet tater pie then if there is a target at your entry . Dogs are easy to avoid, bring em a snack :)
Just don't give em the sweet tater pie fer the dadgum snack!
And if they do commence to bitin' ya anyway, hold still til they get through.
They get real mean when people start jumpin around and makin a big fuss while they're tryin to bite the hell out of em.
It has been said by a winner in Texas years ago, "The money may not change you, but it changes the people around you."
More reason to try to keep it a secret.
I've kind of thought about how to handle such requests/begging if "the cat's out of the bag" (e.g., for some reason you are exposed as a winner)... If I have to go public, I'd try to make it known that "Yes, I plan to allocate an ongoing percentage of earnings to good causes, however, anybody who actually asks for anything, is automatically disqualified from consideration." No matter how convincing a case they may make, if they break this rule, they are disqualified. (I wonder if you could create a trust with such a guideline, putting it beyond your control.)
Only give to causes that you pursue, not to causes that pursue you. And then make sure that you make the effort to pursue some good causes.
I've thought about doing something like that too if I was lucky enough to ever hit a big one. However, what I read happens is that as soon as someone finds out that you were wearing a costome etc. That then becomes the story. People will then try to find pictures of the real you and expose you. I personally think that dressing down is probably a good idea but I wonder if by doing that, does that give an illusion to people looking for handouts and scammers think that the person is "less Intelligent" in some way. I wonder if showing up in a really nice Armani suit with glasses may be a better approach in intimadating the so called "less intelligent". I know they say to dress like your an ordinary folk but to me that may make you more of a target to the scammers thinking you're an easy target.
You know, Gym Rice, that's an interesting comment. If you dress, say, like a lawyer, would people be less likely to try to scam you? I think you are onto something there.
As for dressing up, I agree. I have thought of how I would dress/disguise myself just for fun. But truly, I think that would make a huge splash on network news - not just local/state. Hence, killing the entire reason for it. With my luck, someone would release a pic of me from my college drinking days.
"Only give to causes that you pursue, not to causes that pursue you. And then make sure that you make the effort to pursue some good causes."
As soon as I read the above quote, an old Johnny Carson line jumped into my head. I think he was doing a skit as a used car dealer giving directions to his car lot. It went something like this: "Take Route 101 south to the Golden State Freeway to Route 5 and north to the Ventura Freeway over to the Pasadena Freeway, south on the Glendale Parkway to the Hollywood Freeway back to the Golden State Freeway to the San Bernadino Freeway up to Route 210 and come back north to Sunland Blvd. and take that to the Slossen Cutoff.... And make sure you don't cut off your Slossen.
Interesting thoughts, new member, GambleToRamble! Rambling is what this blog is all about.
Thank you for sharing and welcome.
One person from as far away as Russia showed up once asking for $150,000, Billy Wilson said.
Funny how some people think lottery winners homes are public places for low lives to hang out and ask for hand outs.
"anybody who actually asks for anything, is automatically disqualified from consideration."
That would be my philosophy and a rule that never gets broken, and the only reason to say anything at any required press conference. It doesn't matter who they are and it doesn't matter how sad their story is. There are more worthy causes out there than I could fund with $50 billion, and I don't need any help figuring out which ones to fund. Pester me and you'll never be on the list
I agree with that philosophy, ask for money, you don't get any.
Sounds like these guys are doing OK with their winnings. They've managed to keep the money from going to their heads.
I've found happiness in my life, all the money would do is make things much easier like not having to worry about bills and such. Money doesn't buy happiness, you have to find that within.
Why are they "Trying to live like regular guys." Net worth most affects a person. Now, each of these guys have a MUCH EXPANDED net worth! I hope that each guy will enjoy the "expanding" processes this money avalanche can allow.
I play the lottery so that I can win its jackpot and thus afford a lifestyle that is more expanded in joy than was before possible. This won't involve causing others around me to feel worse in any way, in fact, they ideally won't give me or my situation another thought.