I wish I didn't have to bust your rosy balloon, but it's called REALITY.
We live in a world full of realities from A to Z.
OK...I'll tickle your ear.
WOW! You are so right, If I was only skipping down the street with a t-shirst that said 'Lets save the whales" while I was whistling too-tellee-too, everything will just be fantabulous.
You better wake up and smell the roses, because life ain't that quaint.
You can be full of happiness and wonder and joy, and still get hit by a bus. Get off your cloud and come back down to earth.
I don't sugar coat something when I know better. That's reality. It's not being negative, that's just the way things are.
Again, just because you're a happy go lucky type of person doesen't mean trouble won't come your way, or that you'll come into money.
How to be lucky? That's like saying.."How to be chinese"...lol
I wonder how many of those 3000 people who died in the twin towers were positive thinkers?